Chicken Sandwich Comparison

When we moved into our house in November, I was hopeful that we’d have nice neighbors, or at least, not awful neighbors. In our old house, we didn’t actually know many of our neighbors but the ones we knew were really nice, although we weren’t close with any of them. 


Our new neighborhood is like nothing I could have imagined. Our neighbors are AWESOME! 

Fridays are for neighborhood happy hour- we head out to Rachel and Sean’s front yard with our folding chairs and drinks. The kids ride bikes or run around and the adults have drinks and chat. There’s been a neighborhood bags tournament. A few weeks ago we had root beer floats at happy hour. The evening the power went out, we all ended up in front of our house hanging out until it got too dark to be outside. 

Saturday mornings are neighborhood short run where we run in a big group. Often there are spontaneous gatherings on porches, in back yards or on the sidewalk. It’s a wonderful place to live. 

There is a neighborhood text chain where people regularly request tools or offer up extra cake. So last week when Sean texted to ask if anyone was passionate about chicken sandwiches and would be interested in doing a chicken sandwich comparison, it wasn’t surprising that everyone responded with enthusiasm. I don’t actually eat that much fast food, but I do love judging and comparing! 

So today was the day! At 11am, we gathered and came up with a plan. We had drivers go 4 different places- McDonalds, Burger King, KFC, and Popeyes. We brought back chicken sandwiches and fries from each. Chickkk Filet was not considered because they hate everyone and therefore were not eligible. This is St.Paul and we don’t stand for hate. 

Each taster ended up with a half sandwich from each place. We went one at a time, making comments about texture, bun, sauce, moisture of the chicken, etc. The fries were palate cleansers in between. 

We started with McDonalds. McDonalds is actually the only fast food restaurant I really ever go, and even that’s rare. I sort of assumed I’d like that sandwich the best. But even though it was the first one, and I was hungry, collectively it did not rate well. The chicken was rubbery, there wasn’t any sauce or mayo, it was very disappointing. 


Popeyes was next. Everyone assumed that would be the winner. And collectively, it was a hit! The chicken was crispy on the outside and moist on the inside. The right amount of mayo, even the pickle seemed better than the McDonalds sandwich. 

KFC was a close second. The chicken was good. It was crispy. There was a LOT of mayo so that was a knock against it. But it was a good sandwich. 
The Burger King sandwich was last. Upon first bite, we were all a little surprised- there was a mustardy sauce that was different than the others and was nice at first. However, after a few bites, the sauce was too much. The chicken was good, the bun was good. 

In the end, Popeyes was a clear winner. KFC was a respectable second. Burger King came in third. McDonalds was a very disappointing last place. My eyes were much bigger than my stomach and by the time we were finished, I didn’t think I’d ever eat anything again. However, it was a very fun comparison and we are already brainstorming the next food group we can compare! 

The End (except a few more things)

I spent Saturday-Thursday at camp. It was my final shebang and it was everything I could have hoped for. I only took 3 photos the whole time (what was I thinking?!) but it was the most on-brand, CYC experience ever.

Power outage
Health center losing power for no reason
Internet not working, had to figure out how to print
Cute Fed Ex guy delivered packages to the welcome center
Poor service at Big Sandy Lodge restaurant 
Rainy first day
Sweaty last day
Docks into the lake
Willy at camp to fix the boat
Karl at camp to fix something
Wood fired pizza from the best pizza place ever
I arrived on Saturday night which was also arrival day for the staff doing lifeguard training. The weather was gorgeous and the predication for the following day was cold and rainy, so after dinner we decided to go get in the lake and “try out… or maybe actually take…” the swim test. 
The water was calm and warm and everyone rocked! Everyone took their swim test and since we were already wet, we decided to put the docks in too. Putting in docks isn’t the worst job ever, but I thought maybe I’d get out of it this year… no such luck. It only took us 30 minutes though and the beach was up and running!
Sunday morning, I laid in bed listening to the rain, cursing camp. After weeks of hot, dry weather, of course it was 65 degrees and rainy! Also, I’ve spent 13 years lecturing, yelling at, begging, reminding staff to BRING A RAINCOAT and did I pack a raincoat for this trip!? Nope. I actually said out loud to myself, “are you new here?!”
It rained the whole day on Sunday, but we were stuck inside for CPR/first aid, so it was actually a really good day for rain. 
The staff did great and we completed that part of training. I was helping with dinner prep that night- I had just dumped the ravioli into the boiling water when POP, the power went out. I checked the breaker, called the power company to report and the promptly RAN to my van to head to the lodge for a drink and dinner. After 14 years of power outages, it felt good to peace out as soon as the power went out. NOTMYPROBLEMANYMORE!!!!
I had a lovely dinner, read a book and headed back to camp for bedtime. 
Monday was 61 degrees, so I altered the class to just be in the classroom and pool, not in the lake. That night, the program director (who is living in the health center this summer) and I attempted to turn on the heat. It didn’t work, and when she flipped the breaker (we were just trying whatever we could think of), it broke and we lost power. I cannot stress enough how “on brand” for camp that was. I pulled the sheets and blankets off my bed and headed to the DC for the night.
Lifeguard training week is usually a bit stressful because after spending the day in training, I would try to spend a little time with the boys, but always had more work to do after dinner. Training week comes next and that’s such a marathon. So by comparison, this year was like a vacation! After training, I spent a lot of time in the skychairs- I read 2 books while I was at camp. I might have spent more time relaxing in these 5 days than I did in the 13 previous summers.
Wednesday was gorgeous and sunny and one of those perfect days that make you walk around feeling like camp is paradise. We wrapped up lifeguard training and then the rest of the staff arrived to camp. Arrival day is filled with nerves and awkwardness and I LOVE everything about it. 
When I looked around at the staff this summer, 6 of the staff are former campers. The 2 lead staff for the summer have been campers since they were little and as I watched them all week, I was so impressed. They have been given more responsibility and have more on their shoulders this summer than I’ve ever given to summer staff. I knew they were going to be good leaders (I hired both of them!), but they have risen to the challenge with such strength and grace that I feel emotional as I type that. It’s been an absolute honor to watch them grow up and now take charge. I’m sad I won’t be there to see them in action all summer. 
I saw Willy (who has always come to the rescue with anything we needed help with and who was close with my dad). We hugged goodbye. I chatted with Karl (who is the main guy who comes out to fix things and has been my hero MANY times when I needed something fixed THISMINUTE!). And then I got an email from a grant that I applied for in February (and thought I didn’t get), letting me know $30,000 had been deposited into the bank account. 
Thursday I spent the day teaching CPR/first aid with the non-lifeguard staff members. It was a beautiful day outside and I was sweaty by the time we finished. 
I was getting ready to pack up and leave when I got pulled into a quick project moving the platforms at the paddle board area. I love the random parts of every day at camp and will miss that part of it. Going from CPR to problem solving at the beach is what camp is all about. 
I chatted with Courtney and then it was time to go. I was sweaty, sandy, and my feet were wet. 100% camp. I thought maybe I’d be emotional, but I felt very content. Camp is in good hands. And I feel ready to be doing something else. I have amazing memories and it’s been the ultimate adventure. And these last few days at camp were the perfect end and I feel grateful for such an opportunity for closure. 
Also that wasn’t the real end. Because the program director is out of town this week, I agreed to do all the first week paperwork and cabin assignments. And I’m going to go to check in to help Stef with the first Sunday. This has been the ultimate Minnesota long goodbye! 
On my way out of town I stopped in at the woodfire pizza place (a new edition last summer) and had the best pizza of my life. I should have gotten 2. For many years, I’ve been a McGregor critic, but in the past few summers, the town has made improvements and there are many things I’m going to miss! 

While I was at camp, Nate, my mom and school all kept me in the loop with lots of pictures. The boys were busy with sports class, swim lessons and Xander’s golf lesson. They went out to dinner for Father’s Day and played with the neighbors. It was the longest I’ve been away from the boys ever and I missed them terribly! 


On Friday, I was happy to spend the day at home. I took 2 puppies and 2 small children to the pet food store. I knew it would be a spectacle and it was. We played all day and then went to neighborhood happy hour. And then Nate and I went out to a very nice dinner. Life is wonderful. 

Camp

It’s the summer and we haven’t headed off to camp yet. In the last 5 years, Memorial Day weekend has been move up time for the boys and I. Before the boys, I used to move to camp mid May. And here we are mid-June and no talk of camp, so what’s up?! 
Last summer was both fabulous and also difficult. It was unique as we were only there for a month, and there weren’t any campers- just Meghan, Sean, Mary, the boys and I, as well as small groups of volunteers. Camp is magical (even without the campers) and we spent the month swimming every day (sometimes twice a day), going into town for wood fired pizza (the best pizza of all time), and having camp to ourselves. The boys loved it, but they were also homesick and missed Nate terribly. The trailer, which has been home for years and one of my favorite places, was way too small for all of us. 
Nate and I had been dating for just 5 months when I packed up and headed for camp, telling him I’d see him in the fall. I’d been at camp a few years already and I wasn’t about to give that up for a guy I was dating. He hung in with me, making the 3 hour drive to visit, and it’s been part of our relationship ever since. But several times over the years, we’ve acknowledged that at some point, camp wouldn’t be the right fit for our life. 

  

We got married at camp. I was pregnant at camp. We added a crib to the trailer, and strapped Xander on my chest and carried on like normal. I was pregnant a second time, this time with a toddler at camp. The next year, I strapped Augustus on my chest and carried on again. He took his first steps in the trailer. But by the end of last summer, I knew it was time to move on, even though I love this job and have spent 13 years with camp as part of who I am. It has been a nonstop adventure and I have loved every minute (even the ones I spent swearing under my breath at whatever nonsense I was trying to fix at the moment). 

 

I’m not exactly sure what I want to do- I’ve only ever wanted to be a camp director and this has been my dream job for 13 years. I started job searching in August- something in nonprofit management. In January, I met with my board to let them know that it was time to find my replacement. I hadn’t yet found a job, but I didn’t want to leave camp hanging and a new camp director would need to be in place ASAP to get ready for the summer. 
Nate and I were prepared for me to be between jobs for a bit, which was a scary prospect, but the best thing for camp was to get a new director in time to be ready for camp, and I wanted to set camp up for success, even if it meant taking a leap of faith. 
The board was supportive and we even discussed the possibility of me staying executive director, but remaining in the office, rather than moving to camp. I can’t imagine a world where that would work, so we ultimately decided against that option. I continued working like normal- preparing for camp- hiring staff, registering kids, etc. 
It took camp a bit longer to find my replacement than I’d expected. The new ED started May 10! Courtney is fabulous and I love her and I am so happy for camp that they have her. I worked with her for a few weeks, trying to share 13 years worth of lessons learned- trying hard to share systems and logistics without getting too nostalgic or taking her too far down memory lane (but there were a few tangents along the way!). 
Next week I will head to camp for a week of lifeguard and CPR training for the staff and then I am officially part of history. I am excited to spend some time at camp before it’s officially over. 
I feel good about my decision to leave- I haven’t had any moments of regret or of changing my mind. I could go on and on forever about how much I love camp and how much I loved my job and what an adventure it’s been, but I am also completely content to be moving on. I don’t yet have a new job or a plan, and that is somewhere between exciting and terrifying and has been sending me into a panic from time to time. I’m hoping the right position opens (and hires me!) soon. 
I’m excited for my first summer at home in 13 years- what do people do if they aren’t in the woods all summer?! The boys are signed up for sports class and swim lessons. Xander will be taking weekly golf lessons. We’ve got baseball tickets and soccer tickets and a long list of family fun activities we want to do. I’m excited to spend time with friends, and happy that I won’t have to miss out on backyard BBQs and summer fun. 
Saying goodbye to camp is a HUGE life change and I expect that sometime in the next few weeks, I will burst into ugly tears (it hasn’t happened yet). But I’m excited for the next adventure that awaits! 

More Catch Up

This week was HOT. Upper 90s-101. It was too hot to do anything. On Friday, we went to the library, the playground that is outside of the library, out to lunch and then hung out inside until it was time for neighborhood happy hour. On Fridays, people gather outside of one of our neighbor’s house and hang out, have drinks and catch up. We have the most friendly, best neighborhood of all time. We ate dinner in the front yard and ended up staying outside until nearly dark. 


Saturday Xander and I went to my mom’s house to water her plants while she was in Texas, and then we had family movie night. 

We tried to get outside as much as we could this week, but it was just for small amounts of time since it was so hot. 

 


On Monday, the boys started “sports sampler” class at the YMCA. They will do 2 weeks of tee ball, 2 weeks of soccer, 2 weeks of flag football and 2 weeks of basketball. Their first class was a success with both boys getting a good hit off the tee. 

On Wednesday evening, there was a short rain storm that ended in our power going out! I felt like I was at camp. Even once the rain stopped, the power stayed off. Nate and I put the boys to bed around 8 and then took a bottle of wine out to our front sidewalk and hung out with about 15 neighbors until it was dark, at which point, we went to bed (power still off!). The power came back on around 11:15. 

This Friday, we were back outside for happy hour- this time with root beer floats. I didn’t take any pictures, but we had a huge crowd outside and it was so fun. The boys (with their buddy) were determined to climb a tree and worked hard to problem solve for quite a long time. They didn’t make it up the tree, but they problem solved, communicated, and were very creative, so I think it was a good use of time. 

Saturday was pre-K graduation for Xander. I love his school and it was very cute, but I wasn’t sure why we were doing it now, as he will continue to attend all summer. We tried to explain graduation but it didn’t really make sense to him. 


There was a parade of cars- everyone decorated their cars and we drove around the block 3 times, honking and yelling while the grads cheered from their decorated chairs. 


After graduation, we headed to Sarah and Grayson’s house to hang out and play. 5 little boys and a cute 1 year old girl- it was a great afternoon/evening with our friends. 


We’ve got another busy week ahead, but hopefully it will be slightly cooler weather! 

Blog Slacker

I’ve been slacking on my blog updates! I have been so busy with work and baking cookies (not to mention 2 kids and 2 dogs) that I haven’t had a moment. I also had to re-certify my lifeguard certification, so I’ve been swimming a lot to prepare for the test. I have much more to update but for now, here’s a bunch of pictures of what we’ve been up to. 
Quiet mornings sipping coffee on the couch… while 2 dogs wrestle in my lap. 

Danny and Heather went to my mom’s house to teach her (and the boys) how to play pickleball. 

I went to CYC for a few days and while I was gone, the boys and Nate went out to dinner. 

We filled our pool and the boys (with their buddy from down the block) played nonstop. 


Matching tank tops. 

A backyard campfire. 

Kickoff to the MN State Fair with my mom and Cindy. It was very fun and I am excited for the real fair!

Puppy snuggles. 

Walking to the park as often as we can. 

Nate moved into his new office! This is a huge deal! He’s been an advisor for 2 years now (officially 2 years on June 17) and he has his permanent office. The boys and I helped him move last weekend. 

The weather has gotten HOT and so when we aren’t in the pool, we’ve been playing in the sprinklers. 

On Sunday we walked with our neighbors to get ice cream. The kids stopped several times along the way to smell the flowers. 



Memorial weekend was last weekend and that usually means moving to camp. Not this year. More on that to come…