Thursday

Another full day! The craziest part of this is that I think we have a pretty good balance between mom-led activities and boys entertain themselves free play. X & A play really well together and also play very well independently. And yet, I am still busy nonstop. Besides all of the activities of our day, I also washed, folded and put away 2 loads of laundry, emptied all the garbage cans, did the dishes multiple times, made breakfast, lunch and dinner, as well as a batch of breakfast burritos for later this week. We cleaned up toys several times. And by the end of the day, the house is still messier than I’d like it and there will be a full load of laundry tomorrow. I’m envious of all the people quarantining without children- what are you doing with yourselves?!

We were outside first thing this morning, “adventuring” as we call it. We live in the middle of the city, but there are a lot of cool areas in our neighborhood with trees and large open spaces to run. We’re finding every nook and cranny near our house to explore. We found a really fun area behind our alley. There was a great tree that became our secret lair. Xander was Dash and Augustus was Baby Jack Jack from the Incredibles and we spent about 25 minutes running up and down the hill, battling bad guys.

Before we went inside, the boys jammed out to some music in my van. They love to play in cars and I’m pretty sure within a few years, they will be trying to drive away.

The boys played while I made lunch and then Xander and I made pizzas for dinner. Augustus was tired and not interested, so he read books in his bed while we pretended we were chefs.


Rest time was pretty short today and then we were back outside. We played in the yard for a while and then headed back to the secret lair. They rolled down (and then ran back up) the hill about 10 times. They found good sticks and battled more bad guys.


We came inside and had a snack and then we painted for a short while.

After painting, we baked cookies.

By that time, it was only 3pm and I was EXHAUSTED. So I got out my computer and let them play by themselves. The entertained themselves very well for a full hour.

By 4, I was even more tired, but we went outside AGAIN. They wanted to walk back to the secret lair, but I didn’t have it in me. They played outside for an hour before I convinced them to come in and relax.
Nate got home from work and we ate the pizza we’d made earlier, with cookies for dessert. Bath, play, stories and bed. It’s been a very good, but very busy day.

Wednesday

My mom watches the boys on Wednesdays and we haven’t changed that part of the routine. They love going to Grandma’s house. They played outside, were busy all day and came home tired!

I finally got to sit and work uninterrupted for an extended period of time. I made some macarons. I got things ready for the rest of the week. It was a productive day. I am incredibly grateful for the support- this is not going to be an easy journey. Despite the productivity, I was very anxious all day. I spent most of the day freaking out about one of us getting sick.


A few weeks ago, I had the same anxiety, which ended in a cooking marathon and 15 meals in our freezer in case Nate and I get sick at the same time and have to try to feed all of us while deathly ill. Everything is in disposable foil pans that don’t need to be washed and ready to pop in and bake. Even sick, we should be able to do that and keep our family fed.

Today I spent some time writing an emergency action plan in the event that one of us gets sick. Our spare bedroom is upstairs and doesn’t have access to a bathroom. The basement has a bathroom and while it probably isn’t the first place I’d choose to spend 2 weeks deathly ill, I think we can make it work. Nate and I are going to do some re-arranging and set up this weekend. I wrote out some steps for what happens if we get sick. I am still feeling really anxious about it, but it feels better to have a written plan that Nate and I have discussed. Hopefully tomorrow I will be so busy that I don’t have time to think.

Tuesday

Day 2. How many days do we get to be on this adventure? Play-dough nearly broke me- there’s gonna have to be some limits. But overall, day 2 was a success.

We stuck to our schedule pretty closely, so that’s been helpful to my sanity. We started the day outside- first with bubble snakes, which is a project I’ve done a few times at camp. You cut the bottom off a plastic bottle and wrap a sock around the opening. I also used a rubber band to keep it in place. Squirt a little bit of dish soap and a bit of water (I didn’t measure, I just did a few squirts of soap and a little bit of water). Dip the sock side into the soap/water and then blow. If you do this activity with 2 year olds, be very clear to blow, instead of suck, because Augustus ended up with a mouth full of bubbles, which I hadn’t seen when we did this with camp kids.

After bubble snakes, we colored with chalk. I was eager to try the project I’ve seen on facebook, where people use tape to make geometric shapes, and then you remove the tape and it looks awesome. Xander colored for exactly 2 minutes before he was bored and Augustus mostly ran laps up and down the sidewalk, so yes, this is my project. At one point, a truck pulled over and a man yelled, “you should let the kids do that”. Ha. Ha. He was being friendly, so I didn’t throw anything at him. I like the ones people have done on black driveways, because they are a little more dramatic, but ours turned out cool and it’s supposed to rain tomorrow, so I wasn’t going to be too much of a perfectionist.

Then it was time for snack and puzzles, followed by some letter practice. I know in school, there is an order to how they teach letters- I’m sure it is the easiest first. But in mom school, we are going in order, so today was “B”. 

I have a VERY high tolerance for messy things- paint, glitter, getting dirty outside. I love all of it. But I hate play-dough. I hate when the colors get mixed. I hate that they can’t independently use the toys and they get frustrated. I hate everything about it. But when they asked to do play-dough, I said yes. I was scrolling on my phone while they were play-doughing, and I saw this meme, and thought, “AMEN! YES. ME WITH PLAYDOUGH.”

Luckily, play-dough, like most activities, lasted only about 20 minutes, and then we were on to lunch time.

After lunch it was rest time. I am not sure what kind of magic the teachers at daycare have to keep a bunch of wiggly toddlers on a cot for 1.5 hours, but I don’t have that skill yet. I said they had to stay in their room for a little while. I was sitting on my bed, attempting to do some work, when I heard them both creep out. I could hear them in the living room, Xander saying, “mommy is gone!” But they found me quickly. And then proceeded to come back out of their room 17 more times until the broke my spirit and we ended quiet time. We’re going to have to work on that, because I need more rest than they are giving me (and so do they!).

Next on the schedule was rock salt ice cream. I have done this at camp a few times and I forgot what a terrible activity it is. It’s great on paper. But in reality, to get the cream to solidify, you have to aggressively shake it for 20 minutes. My children shook it for 2 seconds. And then I forgot that the salt and ice get too cold to hold. And then the ice melts and you have salt water everywhere. And in the end, you get soupy ice cream at best. And it actually just tastes like sweetened heavy cream. And the kicker to all of this is that I’ve done it before I knew that’s how it goes! I do not recommend this activity. I should have had some real ice cream hidden in the freezer. The boys covered it in chocolate sauce and sprinkles and they said they liked it, and were excited to tell Nate about the ice cream they made, so maybe it was a success based on that, but I DO NOT recommend.

From ice cream, we went back outside. It’s upper 50s today, so we are taking advantage of as much sun as we can get. We did a scavenger hunt, finding items of each color I imagined it would be things in nature, but instead it was backyard toys. It was another 10 minutes of fun.

Then we hopped in the car and headed to a big tree filled field across from a park. I used to take Olivia here to play with the ball. We ran from tree to tree, swinging sticks, yelling, “there’s a bad guy, HIDE!” over and over. We tip toed from one tree to the next. Then we zig zagged. Then we ran fast. It was kind of like red light green light. It was actually really fun.


They were exhausted when we got home, so I broke my rule (I think it’s a rule I’m going to break a lot) and they got 30 minutes of ipad time.

Then we went back outside for the part of the afternoon where I sat on a chair and they played.

Thankfully Nate got home after we’d been outside for a while and he took them inside to play and give me a break. I am 3.5 weeks post surgery and still supposed to be resting. Thankfully I haven’t needed the full 6 weeks of recovery- I feel pretty good and almost normal. I definitely notice that I get tired more quickly though, so that’s kind of a challenge in all of this.

Dinner- ribs, mashed potatoes, mixed vegetables.

Bring on bath and bedtime!

Our First Monday


It was our first Monday at home and it was a great day. I made a schedule for us and the boys checked it several times throughout the day to see where we were and what was next. Xander is pretty “type A” so he liked having a structure to the day. And we stuck to it all day.

The weather was awesome and we were outside right away, and spent a full hour riding bikes, throwing rocks, and running around fighting bad guys.

After playing outside, we went back inside the house and the boys played while I had a facetime interview with a potential summer staff. The boys were very cooperative and didn’t interrupt.

For lunch, we had a picnic in our front yard. We live on a pretty busy street, so there was a lot going on for us to watch. We saw about 10 people out for walks, 5 or 6 dogs for walks, a garbage truck drove by, lots of good cars- the boys waved to every person, animal and vehicle.


After lunch is was time for rest time. Overall they did pretty well, although we added some rules as we went- no arguing and no coming out of their room. 


When quiet time was over, we worked on a few different projects- we practiced writing ‘A’s, painted letters for their wall, and played.

Then we headed back outside for the rest of the afternoon. They took turns driving the jeep up and down the alley. For the first few laps, Augustus chose to run after it instead of riding or driving. I was also running along, and after the 15th time up the alley, I thought maybe there’s hope that I won’t gain 100 pounds during this quarantine. Not pictured, Xander changing into shorts, then taking off his shirt. He is VERY ready for the summer.

Xander helping Augustus steer

It was a busy day and I think I am more exhausted than either of them. I’m going to have to build my stamina for our daily adventures.

Staying Busy on the Weekend

One of the challenging things about this whole experience has been that usually on the weekends, we have a lot of fun things to do. There are play-places, the Children’s Museum, the zoo, playdates, Xander’s dance class and so many other things we like to do. And they are all closed. Even the playground is supposedly off limits because the virus can live on surfaces.

In the early years of camp, our budget was limited to basically zero, so creating programming out of nothing is something I have a lot of experience doing. Although the boys have been going to school these last few weeks, I have been preparing for having them home. I have long lists of activities, divided into different categories. I have been shopping for basic supplies. I re-configured their room, clearing out their closet to create a “cozy corner” and organized all the art supplies into one area. I sorted books into categories so that I can change the display books to match the theme of our week. And I’ve been mentally preparing to try to work full time and keep them on a good schedule.
Weekend #1-
Our first theme was Halloween. It was just Friday and Saturday, but it was a fun way to kick off our time at home. We made Halloween rice krispie treats. 

We decorated paper pumpkins. We read Halloween books. 

We tried on lots of different costumes, but ultimately went with Buzz and Woody. On Saturday, we had a zoom call with the pre-K kids. All of the kids came in costume and got to show off their look. Afterwards, Nate and I stationed ourselves at the front and back doors and the boys got to go back and forth to trick or treat.

On facebook, the local news station posted a question of what people were doing to stay busy and I replied. A reporter emailed me to ask if I wanted to do an interview, and then we ended up on the 6pm news! 

https://www.kare11.com/article/news/health/coronavirus/day-one-of-mns-stay-at-home-order/89-d74da012-4dc3-491f-988d-19f8311b3009?fbclid=IwAR1X7DBxnAR4mP6W5Jwx0WZt95QEleHn–74HvyYwyR5KWwkVpmuffsLy6A


Halloween fun ended after lunch and then we switched to non-theme activities. We baked banana bread.

And then we did a scavenger hunt that I found online. I hid the clues all over the house and the boys were pretty good at figuring them out. The prize at the end was 2 little painting kits, so that was our next activity.

We played outside. We played in the basement. We read some books.

By the end of the day, I think I was more exhausted than either of the boys. I have a lot of free play time built into the regular schedule- I am not going to camp-direct all day every day. They play pretty nicely on their own, so hopefully we’ll find a good balance that works for everyone.

We’re Back

Hey all you cool cats and kittens, Natalie here. And we’re bringing the blog back early. There’s a world-wide pandemic. Unprecedented. Yesterday, the governor enacted a “shelter in place” order which means that schools have shut down, people are working from home, and basically everything (malls, restaurants, parks, public spaces, the NBA, casinos, etc) is closed down. Pretty much the only time you are supposed to leave your house is to get groceries. 
This actually started about 3 weeks ago. It seemed like every day, they shut something else down. Nate has continued to go to his office every day. I had surgery on March 6, and was already working from home/recovering for 6 weeks. Our daycare has remained open through all of this. Nate and I have been sending the boys to school every day. I’ve been very conflicted- on the one hand wanting to keep our lives normal and on the other, being afraid that we were putting the boys (and us) at risk of getting sick. But a lot of people are still working and sending their kids to daycare, so we have continued as well. 
We decided that we would keep them home from school once the “shelter in place” order was enacted. And on Friday, it was. I have been working from home on Fridays since Xander was born, and now it’s the weekend, so technically these last few days have been normal. Monday will begin our life as stay-at-home+work-from-home mom with 2 boys. 
This is historic and unprecedented time period and there will be books and movies written for years to come. But I figured it was time to bring the blog back, to keep a record of our day to day life while we are living through this. Someday Xander and Augustus will look back and be able to read about our life during this time. 
On Friday, the boys and I walked to the bakery down the street. The bakery is one of the few places left that is still open and so we walked over to get donuts. When we got there, I told them not to touch anything, and that we would just go in, order, and then go home to have treats. I turned my back to pay and when I turned back, Augustus’s tongue was pressed against the glass display case. I gasped. He never touched anything with his hands, so perhaps next time I just need to be more specific about NOT LICKING ANYTHING. This is going to be a wild ride… 

A Fun Saturday

What a busy and fun Saturday!

Xander woke up ready to go at 6:30 and said, “will you get up and play with me?” How could I turn down that request?

Once Augustus and Nate were up too, we ate breakfast and headed out to Costco. I never thought I would bring the whole family to Costco, but what else is there to do on a Saturday? And the boys love it. So we shopped for almond meal, diapers, and laundry soap (plus much more) in bulk.

After Costco, we met Brad and Angela at Bad Weather Brewery to catch up while they are visiting from Colorado. The boys ate lunch, played with cars, and ran around. We were lucky that it was pretty empty and we had the whole back room to ourselves so the boys could just run free while we chatted and drank noon beer and ate food truck tacos.

After the brewery, we went home and the boys (and me) took naps. It is rare that I nap, but I was exhausted! It is also rare that Xander naps, so I think maybe the 6:30 wake up for both of us might have been too early.

When we all woke up, we headed to the Como Harriet Streetcar for a ride with Ben! It’s been an annual tradition to go for a Streetcar ride after camp for several years now and today was perfect weather and a great night for a Trolley ride!

After the ride, we had a picnic dinner and then the boys played on the HUGE playground. There was a Hershey’s S’mores Truck handing out marshmallows, sticks and s’mores! So we roasted s’mores, which wasn’t part of our original plan, but a fun surprise! I wish every park had free s’mores trucks!

Our original plan was to get ice cream after the playground. S’mores were not a replacement for ice cream according to Xander. We have been trying to detox from our summer of sweets, but it was such a nice night, so double dessert it was! Both boys were COVERED in ice cream by the time they finished their cones, but what’s a little stickiness on one of our last nights of summer?!

It was such a busy, but perfect Saturday!

Another SUPER Fun Week!

Another super fun week at home with the boys. We have been SO busy and doing so many fun things. Life will go back to normal next week, but for now, we’ve been having a blast!

Monday
On Monday, we started the day at the park. We were playing PJ Masks, which was just me chasing the boys yelling, “I’ll steal your powers! I’ll get you! Rawr” over and over while chasing them. They scream. Repeat. At one point, we had about 6 little kids all playing. I’m not sure what their parents thought- they didn’t come rescue their children, so they must not have thought I was entirely crazy.

After burning off some energy, we went to see a movie- this was the first time the boys have been to a theater. I think it was the first time in 4 years I had been to a movie theater too. We’ve seen the first 3 Toy Story movies approximately 100 times each, so it was fun to see Toy Story 4. The boys did great- Augustus got a little wiggly towards the end, but it was a fun way to spend a rainy afternoon.

Tuesday
On Tuesday, we went to Fawn-Doe-Rosa, which is a wildlife educational park. I follow several mom blogs and this place was all the rage this summer. About a month ago, while driving the golf cart one evening, Augustus and I saw a deer, and for the rest of the summer, he repeated, “more deer” every time we got on the golf cart. So I was excited to go here and see “more deer”. It did not disappoint! We arrived right away in the morning, and that must be when the deer are the hungriest, because there were several that were waiting at the entrance and came right up to us. I was magical!


In addition to deer, there are several other animals as well. We petted bunnies, goats, cows, pigs, chickens, llamas, and even a skunk! Xander was very excited for a pony ride. However, when it was time, he changed his mind and ran away. So Augustus went first and was a bit unsure about it. After Augustus’s ride, Xander got in line again… and changed his mind again. Except that I picked him up and put him on the horse and forced him into riding. He was not thrilled, but was glad he did it when it was over.


We had lunch and played on the playground, fed a few more deer and then it was time to head home. But just a few miles down the road is Franconia Sculpture Park, which has been on my “to visit” list for along time! Since we’d driven all the way out there, I decided just to swing in and check it out briefly. We ended up being there for an hour and could have stayed longer, but Augustus started laying down on the sculptures and the sky was threatening rain, so it was time to go! But we will definitely go back- there were a lot of things to do and climb on and we had a lot of fun!

Wednesday
On Wednesday, my mom and I took the kids to the State Fair! I love the fair. I wasn’t sure how it would go with kids, but they did so well! We rode the ferris wheel, went down the giant slide, ate corn dogs and cookies and slushies and ice cream (and didn’t puke after all that). Xander played in the arcade and we watched the parade (Augustus kept saying, “Whoa!”). It was a great first fair experience!



Thursday
Thursday was a little slower as we’d had quite a busy week up to that point. We went to the doctor and the grocery store in the morning, and then went to a nearby park to meet up with Skylar and her family. I only took 2 pictures the whole day! 

Friday

Friday was another low key day. We played at home all morning, and then Grandma Debbie came over to play some more, while Nate and I went to the fair. My mom and the boys had a great time and so did Nate and I. It was a great end to a very busy week! We’ve got a lot planned for the weekend and then it’s back to real life with the boys at daycare and me back to my office. I know the boys are excited to go back to school, so I’m looking forward to the arrival of fall!

Boys’ Weekend/Girls’ Weekend

This weekend was boys’ weekend! I haven’t been away from my boys for more than a few hours for months. But this weekend, I headed off to summer camp and Nate and the boys got to hang all weekend. When I told Xander about it, I said, “it’s going to be BOYS’ WEEKEND!” and he said, “when is girls’ weekend?” and I said, “well, kinda this weekend too because I’m going to be hanging out with a bunch of moms, so, I guess that’s girls’ weekend!”
Yes… summer camp… for adults. Unglued Summer Camp. A few months ago, my friend Shayla, who worked at CYC with me from 2008-2010, emailed and asked if I wanted to join her at summer camp. Shayla is one of those people who is SO fun and SO nice and just generally cool and awesome that I didn’t even hesitate (or actually look it up), I just said, “YES” immediately. Later I looked at the website and was very excited to see that what I’d agreed to seemed VERY cool.

And it was!! We went to a weekend of SUMMER CAMP! It was all adults. Open bar all weekend (which was lost on me as I had about 5 drinks total, but I like having the option! Mimosas- yes! Drinks at lunch- probably not, but I like the possibility! Drinks garnished with gummy bears- yes!). It was a crafting camp, so we signed up for 4 sessions. There was also a color war, a dance party, INSANELY amazing food, snacks, drinks, fun activities in between… It was SOOOO fun! I took a nap during rest hour. I stayed up late and slept on a bunk bed. The organizers thought of every detail and ran a phenomenal program! I was so blessed to be able to be part of this camp! 

I missed my boys almost immediately and by halfway through Saturday, I was like, DYING for some toddler hugs, but the weekend was still was SO fun. I can’t even begin to describe it- they did a spectacular job. The food was INCREDIBLE. I learned how to bake biscuits from a professional (it wasn’t all just crafts, the sessions varied!). I danced until I thought I was going to pass out from exhaustion. I REALLY enjoyed myself and it was SO awesome.

The boys had a fabulous time! I left at 3pm on Friday, so they pretty much just hung out, had dinner and then went to bed. On Saturday, they went to my mom’s house for swimming, lunch and a trip to the park. On Sunday, they went out for donuts, went to the park, got haircuts, and played, played, played! They were definitely making up “daddy time” from the summer. It was a VERY fun weekend. I am so grateful for Shayla inviting me, Nate being an awesome dad/husband to take over for the weekend. And also, SO happy to come home to my boys!